Online dating tip for better
Relationship psychologist Honey Langcaster-James says: “Look straight into the camera and smile showing your teeth – this says open, friendly, healthy and confidence.” A recent study of the most popular profiles on dating sites showed 88 per cent are making eye contact with the camera in their profile picture.Jim Talbott, director of consumer insights at Match.com, also suggests: “Keep your photos fresh, and swap out your primary photo frequently.Before you take the time to compose your message, look through her profile and try to view things from her perspective. Of course you’re great, but are you a great match for her? Don’t look at her profile to see if she has logged in.Do you fit all, or most, of what she’s looking for? I often receive messages from men who seem to overlook the preferences I’ve stated in my profile. This means you have to read her profile, and pay attention to what you read. Don’t hover over your sent mail folder to see if she’s read your message.But running, skiing, tennis, dancing and cycling were also rated highly.Just like meeting a stranger in real life, you have to stay safe when you’re online. We sympathize, but technology keeps improving and we have to keep up, too.
"There weren't a lot of people using the Internet to date back then," she says.the height of "cuffing season." In fact, Match calls this time of year its peak season."There are an estimated 107 million single adults in this country, and at the New Year, many are inspired to make finding a relationship a resolution for the coming year,” says Bela Gandhi, founder of Smart Dating Academy and a dating expert for Match.This year Match foresees hitting the most new memberships at P. on January 8, when 42 percent more people than usual will join.You look like a new user and people who might have missed you before are more likely to give you a second look.” A final thought from Honey: “Don't be tempted to airbrush your picture or present yourself looking too much better than you do in real life, and give group photos a miss to avoid confusion.” It might feel a little awkward, but dating expert Peter Spalton says it’s a great idea to ask a friend to cast a fresh eye over what you’ve written – and not just to check your spelling.“We live in a soundbite society so the first 30 words of your profile really count,” says Peter.